I've been training for races for at least 8 of the 13 years I've known my husband, including marathons and a half ironman triathlon, but to fulfill the full ironman goal first required a serious discussion with the hubby about what this process will actually entail.
I believe taking on this goal will be possibly the most selfish thing I will ever do. It will not only require all of the crazy training hours, but also all of the crazy recovery and preparation hours - going to bed early, not having time for social outings, and not being very flexible with scheduling - for the better part of the year. Time is only the first part of the selfishness - I can already tell that this process is going to be EXPENSIVE! Race fees, bike kit, lots of pairs of running shoes, nutrition...
Luckily, my dear hubby is amazingly supportive of my decision to do this. I know he will be frustrated with the training regimen and the triathlon purchases at times, but he is on board with me completing this goal - he even wants to train for and run his first marathon next fall so we can run our long run together because "it will mean I get to see you on the weekends" [collective awwww]. I am not even close to the really crazy training, but I want to make sure he knows how thankful I am for his support and for allowing me to pursue a dream. Thank you, Rob, for understanding how important this is to me and wanting to be a part of the journey! I love you!